March 7, 2012
History, Tradition Eleven, Traditions
12-steps, aa, al-anon, alcholism, alcoholics anonymous, meeting, searching, sobriety
Tradition 11 states,
“Our public relations policy is based on attraction rather than promotion; we need always maintain personal anonymity at the level of press, radio, films, and TV.”
My recent search on the Internet for the words “12-step program” got 633 million hits (in .16 seconds, by the way)! Whoa. Bill W. and Dr. Bob would be blown away with that fact, huh?
Both the AA and Al-Anon 11th Tradition speaks of maintaining anonymity “at the level of press, radio and television“. We’ve come to add the Internet into that mix, too. In fact, both organizations (they are separate, if you didn’t know it) have guidelines in place for those who want to take the Program on to the Web. I am the “webmaster” (for lack of a better word) of my Al-Anon home group’s membership website. And there are many, many other groups that have made the leap.
So that brings up the question: are websites “promoting” the Program instead of “attracting”, like the 11thTradition states? More
October 3, 2011
12-steps, aa, addiction, al-anon, alcholism, alcoholics anonymous, big book, Bill W., Bill Wilson, CAL, Dr. Bob, God, grace, humility, inspiration, meeting, sobriety
Have you had an opportunity to see the play “Bill W. and Dr. Bob”?
Written by Dr. Stephen Bergman (psychiatrist) and his wife, Janet Surrey (clinical psychologist) http://www.nytheatre.com/interview.aspx?v=bergman, I recently had the good fortune of watching the play at our local Center for the Arts.
I attended the play with my husband, who is also an alcoholic, and 15 other friends from the “Program”, both AA and Al-Anon. In fact, it sure seemed that the entire audience was in recovery as the conversation flowed easily between strangers, just as it does at meetings.
I went with reservations–how can people who are not in the Program going to be able to tell a story that is very well-known to the audience and in an entertaining way? More
February 3, 2011
Can You Relate?
aa, al-anon, alcholism, alcoholics anonymous, anxiety, meeting, mental health
I walk into the room and look at the faces of the people sitting around the tables. No one looks familiar–many are busy in conversation. I casually slip into an empty chair at the end of one table. The lady across from me says, “Hi”, and I smile and nod. She looks friendly enough but the lines on her face seem to tell a different story. I wonder if that’s how I look to others.
The man next to me stops talking to his buddy and turns to me and says, “Hi”, too. He gets that same smile and nod the first lady got from me. I’ve got plenty to go around. He asks More