January 17, 2013
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The Serenity Prayer: Original Version
In 1943, theologian Reinhold Niebuhr wrote the Serenity Prayer for a church sermon. This prayer, an appeal for grace, courage and wisdom, has become closely associated with AA, often recited at meetings all over the world. Adopted in the late 1940’s by AA, it remains a favorite prayer for Alcoholics Anonymous, Al-Anon and other 12-step groups.
Interestingly, the prayer was changed from “give us grace ” to “grant me the serenity”.
Niebuhr’s daughter, Elisabeth Sifton, wrote the book, “The Serenity Prayer”, which explores the circumstances that led her father to write the prayer. The book can be found many places online. I ran across this audio interview of Ms. Sifton on the NPR website a few years ago and have included a link to it here: NPR Audio Interview
Lasting about 20 minutes, I hope you set aside time to find out more about this humble man.
Find a framed copy at our website.
The Serenity Prayer – Original Version
Reinhold Niebuhr (1892-1971)
God, give us grace to accept with
Serenity the things that
Cannot be changed,
Courage to change the things which
Should be changed, and the
Wisdom to distinguish the one
From the other.
Living one day at a time,
Enjoying one moment at a time,
Accepting hardship as a
Pathway to peace.
Taking, as Jesus did,
this sinful world as it is, not as
I would have it. Trusting that
You will make all things right If
I surrender to Your will, So that
I may be reasonably happy
In this life, and supremely happy
With You forever in the next.
March 7, 2012
History, Tradition Eleven, Traditions
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Tradition 11 states,
“Our public relations policy is based on attraction rather than promotion; we need always maintain personal anonymity at the level of press, radio, films, and TV.”
My recent search on the Internet for the words “12-step program” got 633 million hits (in .16 seconds, by the way)! Whoa. Bill W. and Dr. Bob would be blown away with that fact, huh?
Both the AA and Al-Anon 11th Tradition speaks of maintaining anonymity “at the level of press, radio and television“. We’ve come to add the Internet into that mix, too. In fact, both organizations (they are separate, if you didn’t know it) have guidelines in place for those who want to take the Program on to the Web. I am the “webmaster” (for lack of a better word) of my Al-Anon home group’s membership website. And there are many, many other groups that have made the leap.
So that brings up the question: are websites “promoting” the Program instead of “attracting”, like the 11thTradition states? More
February 6, 2012
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Although now closely associated with 12-step recovery, legends abound when it comes to the Amethyst. Amethyst is a variety of quartz–its violet coloring, which is its identifying feature, can vary from dark purple to pink. It’s been said to contain certain spiritual properties that affect the wearer. While I don’t ascribe to the idea that inanimate objects have any kind of “power”, it is fun to listen to the stories. My favorite legend of the origin of Amethyst is the Greek version (some say it’s Roman).
The Greek god, Dionysius, who was said to be the god of intoxication, let his anger get the best of him one day when he was insulted by mortal man. Vowing to have tigers carry out his sworn revenge More
January 8, 2012
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While researching another topic, I happened to run across this on the AA World Services website:
“Q: What is the story behind the Circle and Triangle logo?”
“A: The Circle and Triangle symbol has long been connected to the A.A. Fellowship. It was adopted as an official A.A. symbol at the International Convention in St. Louis in 1955, and from that point on was widely used in the Fellowship. For the Fellowship, the three legs of the triangle represented the Three Legacies of Recovery, Unity and Service, and the circle symbolized More